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百花视频 Featured in The New York Times

百花视频’s founder and CEO,聽Anita Rogers, as well as聽Kristen Reyes, BAHS’ Senior Recruiter & Estate Management Consultant, and聽Katherine Patterson, BAHS’ Senior Placement Specialist, were recently interviewed by聽The New York Times聽for during COVID-19.

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Mary Poppins Returns! Some Modern Families Seek a Governess
Whom better suited to dispatch briskly with the demands of coronavirus-era child care?

by Ruth La Ferla. October 8, 2020

In her work as an estate manager,聽Kristen Reyes聽often finds herself fielding client requests for a special kind of child minder. 鈥淐allers will say to me, 鈥楰risten, I need a modern Mary Poppins.鈥 Everyone knows what that means.鈥

It refers, Ms. Reyes went on to explain, to that old-fashioned paragon of patience, good cheer and decorum otherwise known as a governess. And, yes, she 鈥 most always a she 鈥 is back, a plucky hybrid of tutor and life coach in rising demand among affluent families scrambling to educate their offspring in the midst of a pandemic.

School shutdowns and social limitations have lent their search a particular urgency. 鈥淔or the past six or eight weeks we鈥檝e been slammed with educator and governess requests, from all over the country,鈥 said聽Anita Rogers, the founder and chief executive of British American Household, a domestic staffing agency.

Orders began doubling as families girded for a fall semester and the rigors of remote learning, Ms. Rogers said: 鈥淒uring the pandemic, we鈥檝e done very well.鈥

The contemporary governess may work in a formal household, staffed with drivers, cooks, housekeepers and the like. But unlike a conventional nanny she is expected to provide a high-end version of home-schooling.

As often as not the job calls for a fancy pedigree that may include an advanced degree from an Ivy institution, a facility with languages, and manners that rival those of a marquise.

But the position has been democratized to some degree. 鈥滻t鈥檚 no longer exclusive to high-net-worth families,鈥 Ms. Reyes said. During a health crisis that shows no signs of abating, two- career families will seek out a governess to function as a proxy parent to their toddlers or teenagers.

Ideally these days, the governess commands respect as a highly accomplished worker in a rigorously demanding job. 鈥淪he is not just a stand-in for a fancy nanny, though nanny duties may be part of the job,鈥 said聽Katherine Patterson, a placement specialist who worked as a governess early in her career.

鈥淪he is responsible for the child鈥檚 safety and welfare,鈥 Ms. Patterson said. 鈥淏ut the role also dovetails with that of a teacher, an increasingly common scenario as the number of parents聽home-schooling their children聽continues to rise.鈥

Her position is nuanced, extending from a child鈥檚 education to that child鈥檚 social and emotional progress. No surprise, then, Ms. Reyes pointed out, that families now are requesting a background in child psychology or child development.

In this currently unstable climate, 鈥渒ids have a lot more to learn about life at a younger age,鈥 she said. 鈥淎 governess can give a 5-year-old an outlet to talk about why they can鈥檛 see their friend or their grandparent. With Covid impacting everything, the governess is a kind of mini-therapist.鈥

Being a governess presupposes a very atypical work environment. 鈥淭here鈥檚 a plethora of dos and don鈥檛s that just wouldn鈥檛 apply to a corporate workplace,鈥 Ms. Patterson said. She declined to describe those rules. 鈥淭hat,鈥 she said elliptically, 鈥渋s for another day.鈥

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